Eliminate the Crazy in your life!
We are all acquainted with the typical idea of New Year’s resolutions. I’ve made more than a few myself—exercise, weight loss, reading more, etc.
I’m curious as to what a New Year’s resolution regarding crazybusting would look like for those of us in the trenches with a nutter/high conflict/borderline/NPD. How to minimize the impact of the crazy on my life has never been a resolution I’ve thought about or made…until this year.
This year I resolve to maintain my clear boundaries.
I resolve to cut off any existing lines of communication that may exist with my husband’s insane ex.
I resolve to identify and immediately erect boundaries with any crazy that may enter my life.
What are your crazy busting New Year’s Resolutions?
2016 has seriously been one of the worst years of my life. My father (with whom I had been estranged for several years prior), died in January. My husband and I briefly separated and got back together over the summer. My son is going through a very contentious divorce with a (likely) Borderline wife. He moved in with us and brought his 2 dogs, making it a total of 6 dogs in our house. I can’t wait for 2016 to die.
I don’t know where to begin with a New Year’s Resolution. Losing weight is way low on my radar. I’m starting a new business next month, so I think I’m going to set up some goals towards that end.
I hope that 2017 brings enough good to counteract the bad that occurred in 2016.
I’ve decided to not make any resolutions this year as far as “typical” resolutions go. I’m focusing on getting, and keeping, the crazy out of my life. I think the rest will fall into place. That’s my hope anyway, LOL!
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