Eliminate the Crazy in your life!
if this isn’t the right place to post this type of thing, I apologize. I just want to put the suggestion out there as I know there are not many places for those of us who are secondary victims and for whom a narc entered their family by no choice of their own. Their are a few sisters on the Shrink4men forum and I’m sure more mothers, sisters and siblings who are dealing with a crazy sister in law/daughter in law. I remember when my brother first married the succubus that is his wife, I just wanted to understand what the hell was going on. It was nice to have a place to relate with other family members who were also dealing with the loss of a family member to a narc.
*LOL* Totally. Most people just don’t get it. They think the family is over reacting or that the evil in law is just part of a typical ‘family doesn’t get along with inlaws’ situation. There are so many jokes about having bad in laws, people don’t get that it’s not just a matter of disagreeing on who should host Christmas or whether Legos are a good present for kids, but that there is an actual EVIL PERSON who has more than likely destroyed their own family’s happiness and is looking for a new family to play out their bad pattern….
Do you listen to Dan Savage “savage lovecast”? The most recent episode, 561, had me practically yelling at the radio…a caller was having a problem because his ‘crazy’ sister was provoking his wife. His wife was telling him and his family to control the sister’s social media posts and behavior so that she would stop offending the wife. Savage did not seem to pick up on the fact that the wife was at least as crazy as the sister, if not more so. What adult woman tells her husband and inlaws that they need to police their adult relative’s social media? CRAZY. People just don’t get it…
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